The three stages of parenthood can be slotted into a playful metaphor. We parents start as dog owners (Stage One). Then cat owners (Stage Two). Then back to dog owners (Stage Three). Ruminate on this to change attitudes about parenting (especially parenting teenagers).

Last night a friend Jamie described a conversation he had with a seasoned parent. (Seasoned - meaning his kids are grown... not to mean he is flavored with parsley, sage, rosemary and thyme - and if you remember that - you too might be seasoned).

Here's the analogy.

Stage One Parents. When the kids are young they are ready to play, engage and a might even even chew furniture.

Stage Two Parents. When the kids hit their teen years into their early twenties, the parents become cat owners. You have to feed them, water them and be tolorated. Much like cats, these pre and early adults walk in, shrug acknowledgment and proceed with whatever they darn well please.

Stage Three Parents. By the time the offspring hit their mid to late twenties, the parents become dog owners again. The kids are more like a trusted Lab. They know the drill. They're engaging. A more comfortable relationship surfaces.

Again, this is meant to be an amusing look at parenting. It may be particularly helpful for parents of teenagers. These parents can be searching the skies for answers to the pervasive question, "What do I do?" Alas, if you own a cat, you know it's about the cat. They'll come around when they want to. Teens (sans the collar with a bell)? Not far off.

Bottom line, enjoy the journey. Parenting is really is meant to be fun.

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